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What should I do? red flag, need Major advice

 
 
katya07
 
Reply Sat 4 Feb, 2017 02:11 pm
I am really bothered with my boyfriend, cause I really don’t know if I can take his word or not anymore, he told me that I can stay over the weekend in his apartment in the city, in fact, he has said it many times, the times I have traveled to see him which is just a few, I go for a day and then he brings me back the same day, cause he studies here in the town that I live so when he comes here we see each other, so I did not feel the need to go and see him on the weekends (since he already comes here from Monday to Friday)So yesterday I said to myself ‘i’m going to take his word and text him to stay that I want to stay over this weekend’.

So I texted him yesterday at 5:46 pm and told him: ‘Hey hun, I want to go over tomorrow and stay over this weekend, Are you doing something? and he replied super late at 8:35 just saying ” I'm coming next week’. Honestly, I got so mad I did not reply back anything, So I don’t understand why wouldn't he tell me the reason why I could not go? it’s the weekend, plus I have not gone to his place for a super long time, I get he is a super messy and his house looks like a hoarders dream literally, but to me, this is a very red flag!! I have to think he has another woman over there or something, so I don't know if I Should just break up with him over text and get it over with, or talk to him when he comes this week straight and clear?
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Sturgis
 
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Reply Sat 4 Feb, 2017 03:15 pm
Having read your previous posts, I note that you have continued trust issues with your boyfriend. Learn to trust him or walk away, it's your choice.
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TomTomBinks
 
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Reply Sat 4 Feb, 2017 03:17 pm
@katya07,
Yes he is cheating on you. He has you during the week and another woman for the weekends.
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 4 Feb, 2017 03:33 pm
@TomTomBinks,
Nah .... He just doesn't want to clean his place up.

THAT would be a red flag for me.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 4 Feb, 2017 04:21 pm
@katya07,
You know what. Do him a favour and break it off.

He needs to find someone more understanding.
Krumple
 
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Reply Sat 4 Feb, 2017 06:32 pm
@ehBeth,
ehBeth wrote:

You know what. Do him a favour and break it off.

He needs to find someone more understanding.


It might be a language barrier but holy crap, she flips out over a text reply that doesn't even remotely imply sinister secrets. She lives in her head too much and she's dating a hoarder? Wow. Talk about crazy meets nutty.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Wed 8 Feb, 2017 02:37 pm
@Krumple,
... and now she's posting the exact same question at other forums

guess she didn't like the responses here


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