Re: how to prove to her you have changed...or are working on
firefightinsquid wrote:okay well i guess yall are in for a long post...i think the best advice comes from those who know the most...i am 25 years old..and my wife is 20...we have been dating since oct 5 2001 and got married valentines day this year...2004...this is my second marriage. . . .i asked why she left and she told me because she cant take it...i talk down to her..i act like she cant do anything right...i told her im sorry and i will change . . . .i was not doing right by her and i wanted to fix it and work on us...
You were married approximately nine months ago on February 14, 2004. You are only 25 years old and this was your second marriage. You bailed on your first wife because she had problems you didn't want to deal with. You also acknowledge that you were not doing right by your second wife. You demeaned her and she couldn't take it anymore. But you wanted to fix the problem and work on your relationship. That was last month. . . .
Now, a month after your wife left you -- you have a new girlfriend. I hope you have enough sense to stay single for awhile until you gain some maturity, learn how to treat a woman, and understand that marriage is a commitment that ought not be entered into lightly.