@neptuneblue,
Let's make an analogy.
What happens when your kids get on a bus to ride to school?
Who's care are they entrusted to?
The bus driver, right? So during that bus ride, the driver is sort of like the president of the bus. He makes all the decisions, he leads the way. Literally, he controls the direction and path that the bus goes in. He's in charge of the safety of those children.
If you knew for fact that your bus driver was smoking crack and taking bribe money so that some weirdo could ride on the bus with the kids when the parents weren't around, and enjoy "observing" the kids, all for a nice little side payment to the driver, would you be alright with that?