Dating Advice...please help

Hi Im new to the board.

i have a problem understanding what went wrong with this guy i was dating. We dated for 3 1/2 months..but at first..in the beginning we couldn't go out for 3 weeks b/c of my hectic schedule. We spent a lot of time together for that course of time. He showed me a lot of interest by introducing me to his brother, going to his brothers girlfriends birthday, introduced me to a lot of his friends, went out with them aswell, spent time as his place..which we couldn't fool around much b/c i felt wierd with his brother being there (Sleeping on the same floor of course) but i didn't make it go further than touching....also took me on a fishing trip for a full 13hour day. That's where i think it went wrong. The next day after that day...he called me twice..which is normal..then the wednesday came along and we both didn't pick up the phone. I had friends tell me that i shouldn't p/u the phone when i knew it would be ok..normal for me to do that. which i ended up not doing. the following night -thursday..he called and asked me where have i been and i acted "cool" as if nothing was different (don't ask) and said ive been here didn't you have soccer games? his response - umm ya...we talked for 2min and thats it. friday we spoke in the morning...like usual..mentioned he had another soccer game that night..and i didn't say what i've always said 'want me to watch?' ...don't ask again. then that same evening i decided to leave him a message asking if he wanted to do something on the sat. he never called me back. i knew he would go fishing that weekend on the sunday. so on the tues morning i called his phone..without a voice message. he ended up returning my call a few hours later and left a long message saying he was away fishing and would call me when he returned. he didnt. i sent a text msg on the wed..no response.he called back the thursday acting normal but didn't ask to see me. we've been playing this game for 2 weeks after that. then i had it..i went to go see him at work and he was happy to see me and asked what i was doing later..thought to myself GOOD finally. He was with a client and said he'd call me after work. I was in the area with friends having lunch..he called me 45 min after seeing me saying taht he wished he had more than 2 min of a break or he'd come see me. to me =positive? I asked him if he wanted me to keep my schedule open for him for later..he said 'oh babe don't do that for me..don't plan your night around me'. confused again. he went fishing again on that sunday-monday. monday i sent him a text asking if caught any fish. he called me tues on his way to work which again i was away from the phone...he left a long message and ended it with for me to call back when i get a chance..which he never does. so i did later after work. he never returned my call. the wed -the next day..i went to his work to visit again...he seemed happy -said i looked great and asked me where have i been and that he hasn't seen me in sooooo long. i responded 'it wasn't my fault' his response as he looks away..i've been busy sorry -stay for a smoke break with me. fine again. then we tlaked with a buddy of his (which i couldn't talk to him about what's going on) so then he had to go back in...asked me if i would be around the area..i said i think so..he said ok good come back and see me. positive? so i was shopping he called asked me join him and his friend for coffee. i did. the attraction vibe i could feel which was good. as we parted..he hugged me and said that we'd tlak soon..but he mentioned that he was going to be in my area to watch a soccer game..so when he said goodbye..i came out and invited myself. caught him off guard but i need to be alone with him to talk...desperate to ask him stuff. he siad for me to call him later around the time that he would have to meet his friend there...so i did...he wasn't there...he was still downtown with the earlier friend (coffee) and was drinking ...i felt like crap..stiff...he said he'd make it up to me over n over and that he'd clal me the next day..i told him not to bother..DONT BOTHER..he siad he'd call me..I said DONT..we got off the phone. saw him two days later as i was walking with a friend friday night downtown..eh didn't see me and i acted as though i didn't see him...he did see me as i pretended not to..he turned his shoulder (sitting at a patio with freinds) he HID himself. i sent him a text while he was fishing this weekend telling him that i was sorry for saying not to bother and that i was frustrated b/c i wanted to tlak to him about alone time without anyone hearing us and hte last time we had alone time i couldn't be myself with people hearing me....and then I wished a good fishing trip.

I know part of it was me holding back with intimacy..but i felt that we didn't have enough alone time and i fear that his 'blueball' issues has gotten to resent me especially from that week we went fishing..we made plans to go back for overnight..wink wink..but then stupid me acts like a buddy to him after the trip. DId i do something wrong? can this issue be fixed btwn me and him?
sorry for it being me first post and a mighty damn long one.

help me