unattainable
LottusFlower:
When you start thinking you might want him back, remember that he also said this:
Quote:I'm not basing our current relationship on sex anymore because I don't see you that way anymore. I wish you would understand when I was trying to explain to you why I want to get intimate with you all the time; it was because I love you and I couldn't find any other way to express but that. I know it made you despise me because of that but I guess that's what makes us two different people.
He doesn't know how to express "love" in any other way except through SEX. That's a cop out. He's just an insensitive, horny bastard.
He could have expressed his love by including you in his life, but he didn't.
He could have expressed his love by building a life with you and the kids, but he didn't.
He could have expressed his love by spending time with you and the children, but he didn't.
He could have expressed his love by listening to you, but he didn't.
He could have expressed his love by trying to understand your feelings, but he didn't.
He could have expressed his love by putting you and the children first, but he didn't.
Everything was and is about him.
He likes to portray himself as a good guy. He always TALKS about how caring he is--about how he wants to help other people--but he's all talk. He only cares about himself. He is selfish.
The only time he wanted to spend time with you is when he was horny. Period.
You deserve so much more. You deserve better than a man who rarely spends time with you except when he's horny and wants to shove his hands down your pants. And then he expects YOU to feel grateful about that simply because he
managed to find you sexy even though he never cared for your look. Again, he wants to portray himself as the caring, magnanimous one. In order to build his own ego, he needs to tear yours apart. Well, LottusFlower, don't let him do you any more favors.
I'm glad that you're thinking more clearly and realize that you're not losing anything. You're getting your wonderful life back.