@perennialloner,
perennialloner wrote:
Are either of these right?
He said he likes me. Vs. He said he liked me. Assuming he still likes me, which one is right? Are they both okay?
They can both be taken to mean that he presently likes me, but the second one can be taken to mean that he liked me in the past, especially without any further context. The first one is more precise.
Quote:He didn't like the way I speak. Vs. He didn't like the way I spoke. The same assumption applies here.
In this sentence you have to keep your tenses consistent, "he didn't like the way I spoke."
Quote:I've heard it's wrong (in formal writing) for me to use present after starting with past most of the time. Is this true? I haven't found a clear answer online.
That's generally true. In your first instance, however, the sentence is reported speech, much like a quote. Sticklers would still insist on using the past tense, but the rule isn't set in stone, so to speak.
In your second instance, if you were reporting what he had said, then you could have used speak or spoke.
"He said he didn't like the way I speak/spoke," with the past tense having ambiguity.
Quote:Thanks for the help.
You're welcome.