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Polyamory - Right or Wrong?

 
 
Eliusa
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 04:47 pm
@vikorr,
Wow! I can't believe it! Have you written it?
What happened? I am signing under each word!
roger
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 05:22 pm
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:

So at one point I had stopped feeling sorry for my husband and said ok!


You've got a real big heart.
vikorr
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 05:39 pm
@Eliusa,
What on earth are you talking about?

The OP is looking for help with an essay she is writing. I gave her things to consider. If you note - nowhere in there did I make mention of what is right & wrong (which is what her essay is about). That is up to her to figure out.

Perhaps the part about we are emotional creatures? Yes we are. That doesn't mean that we should base our emotions on fabrications of reality, or not try to understand others or accept human difference...that' how racism, and all sort of other problems start.
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Eliusa
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 05:50 pm
@roger,
I do. Don't I?
What you aren't sexually active as well?
I guess considering you are here with other happy
men...
vikorr
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 06:16 pm
@Eliusa,
You've had a shot at a number of men on this forum now. Your claim to tolerance is looking rather thin.

And if you apply you own assertion:
Quote:
I guess considering you are here with other happy...

You must be unhappy.... But you claim otherwise.

You are exhibiting a lot of double standards.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 06:36 pm
@vikorr,
If I was happy Like you I would stay else here unlike yo!
roger
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 06:43 pm
@Eliusa,
I'm not at all sure what that means.

And I was being very sarcastic.
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vikorr
 
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Reply Fri 30 Sep, 2016 06:49 pm
@Eliusa,
Quote:
If I was happy Like you I would stay else here unlike yo!
So now you're not happy? So you want to have a go at everyone else?

Luckily I'm on my last week of holidays. I have plenty of free time. So far I've repaired my fence, stripped / repainted /reglazed some windows, and currently in the middle of tiling 50m2 of footpath, stairs, and verandah. For mental exercise, I visit here.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sat 1 Oct, 2016 02:01 am
@vikorr,
vikorr wrote:
. For mental exercise, I visit here.


Knock yourself out.
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Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 1 Oct, 2016 09:03 am
@wilkinsonsarah,
Hi!
Just paid attention t your post and found it utterly funny.

ethical principles of polyamory?
How can you support my thesis that polyamory is bad for the soul, unsatisfactory, and unsustainable, there is little research to support it.

Have you ever experienced polyamory? If yes - you can than and ONLY that write about it being unsatisfactory. HOW do you know if it is unsatisfactory for people who are actually experiencing it?
It is like to say people what to experience.
I love to be polyamorous!
No you don't. It is unsatisfactory.
But I am double-satisfied!
No you can't be because it is unsustainabe thus can't be satisfactory!
But...
No buts! I am going to writ the paper and you will be not satisfied!
I did one about gay. It fell trough but I am not going to let this one slip
tru the crack!

Sound stupid right?
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sat 1 Oct, 2016 10:04 am
@Eliusa,
Eliusa wrote:
Sound stupid right?



That's a pretty good tagline.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 1 Oct, 2016 11:32 pm
@izzythepush,
You can use it anytime izzy! Its my gift to your posts. FREE.

ekename
 
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Reply Sun 2 Oct, 2016 12:04 am
@vikorr,
Quote:
For mental exercise, I visit here.


Yes , holidays are the perfect time for enjoying the simple pleasures



and kicking back , relaxing , and 'knocking off work to carry bricks'.




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glitterbag
 
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Reply Sun 2 Oct, 2016 01:40 am
@izzythepush,
Apparently she wasn't improving her English while she was away. Wait!! Was she away????
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 2 Oct, 2016 04:12 am
@Eliusa,
When someone makes a joke it doesn't become funnier when you repeat the same joke back at them.

Even very stupid people normally understand that.
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Krumple
 
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Reply Sun 2 Oct, 2016 07:07 pm
@wilkinsonsarah,
I've been a a2k member for a long time and the relationship threads are one of my interests. I like the examination of relationships and human behavior. With that said I feel humans are really not ment to be monogamous but we have societal baggage that wants it to be that way but human behavior contradicts it.

I think there is absolutely nothing wrong with polyamory. I think the reasons it rarely works is due to social stigma and societal dogma when it comes to relationships.

The problem is it hasn't been explored enough for people to understand the dynamics of how the interactions work. Leaving the "soul" out of such a thing, the success or failure is based on tossing out the social norms of monogamy. The relationship is far more complex that a dual interaction.

I believe it will become more common in the future when social stigma of "traditionalism" fades.

I find nothing wrong if all people involved understand and agree with the relationship dynamics. Each case is unique. It's in the human to progress to such a place. Nothing morally wrong with it not should any suggest that there is.
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