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Wed 22 Sep, 2004 12:34 pm
My husband has a very high sex drive and I a very low sex drive. I know it varies for different people, but I am looking to see what is the norm. How many times a week or month?
Before having kids or after having kids?
Ha! Pertinent question...
I tried to get the answer to that question once, I think. I don't remember now though...I've started so many threads about frequency of sex, duration, penis size, orgasms, etc...it's hard to keep all this completely useless information straight!
Hope you get the answers you're looking for.
By the way, I have a feeling that whatever the poll answers turn out to be...it's less! People exaggerate like crazy!
I should have been more specific. I have 2 children and been married for 8 years. But the results should still be interesting. Maybe I will post a more specific one later. Please be honest and don't exagerate.............................................................
What are the ages of you and your husband?
It varies....6-8-10-12 times mo.....many factors play into our sex life....but for polling purposes, I can honestly say 2-3 time a week (based on a 7 day week) so thats what???...
8-10 times a month....some times more sometimes less....
we to have kids...3 of um.....6-8-14 yrs.....we have to be very creative..
heheheheheh
I am 32 and my husband is 35
If you think you have a low sex drive talk with a Dr. there may be help.
Once or twice a day, sometimes more.
In 'Annie Hall' there is a VERY astute observation on this.
They have a split screen with Alvy and Annie at their respective therapists. The shrinks are asking them:
Quote:Alvy Singer's Therapist: How often do you sleep together?
Annie Hall's Therapist: Do you have sex often?
Alvy Singer : [lamenting] Hardly ever. Maybe three times a week.
Annie Hall : [annoyed] Constantly. I'd say three times a week.
You don't wanna know... either way...
Before marriage: 5-7 times per week
After marriage: 2 times per week
After kids: 1 time per week
After 20 years marriage: 1 or 2 times per year
Single guys, please note.
It's also documented that married men have more sex than unmarried men.
single guys, please note...
BTW, steveH, welcome to a2k!
sex and marriage
My husband and I have been married for about 7 months and we only have sex usually once every two months and sometimes if I'm lucky once a month. I'm 21 and he's 24. I guess it depends on your situation.
depends...in married women the chief function of the vagina and other orifices are as a disciplinary tool......so it depends on her mood......of course many married couples have lots and lots of sex....with the spouses of other married couples.....
women will turn sex down anytime the planets aren't lined up correctly or they remember some slight from several years ago....men on the other hand will, no matter how angry or displeased they might be with their spouses will still have sex with them....women delight in characterizing this as a negative trait in men but in reality it's merely because God only knows when you moody bitches will want to do it again......
Is seven times a day not counting in public excessive?
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