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Mon 20 Sep, 2004 02:00 pm
Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now, we are both 17 and we care about eachother alot, but are both not interested in having sex just yet. We are very intimate, but choose not to take it far enough where clothes come off. We go under and such but we both feel thats fine, cause it makes us both happy. But my question is, does anyone have any advice on how to give her that "strong feeling" without sex.
Just from your post, it sounds like you already have a strong connection without sex. You must be doing something right. Great kissing and presents always work. That and telling her how you feel.
Massages, backrubs and dinners out are also good.
i guess what im trying to say is "sex without sex" like is there a way i can give her that feeling without taking it too far
EMSFD125 wrote:i guess what im trying to say is "sex without sex" like is there a way i can give her that feeling without taking it too far
You have to define "too far"?
well basically, no sex of any kind really
What does 'no sex of any kind' mean?
Like, no touching, no oral sex, no nothing?
touching yes, but i dont think shes into below the belt and no oral
Honestly, I'd back off of the touching, if I were you... it'll only lead to temptation... Try feeding her instead... Quail in rose petal sauce made with a lot of love... nothing is more of an aphrodesiac than food well prepared...
i touch her, but i stay above the clothes below the belt, thats prob the only limit on the touching
Ever heard of orgasm from nipple stimulation?
Well, just treat her well, and talk about how you feel about her. You haven't given us much information here. If you write, or play music, you could compose a poem or a song for her. Take her out for a picnic. Buy her flowers. Dang, you are both young, but consider that with women, it's about the small, regular gestures of kindness. Don't worry about what might make her 'hot'. Work on her mind.
nope...but hey if its basically self explanatory i could handle that lol
princesspupule wrote:Honestly, I'd back off of the touching, if I were you... it'll only lead to temptation... Try feeding her instead... Quail in rose petal sauce made with a lot of love... nothing is more of an aphrodesiac than food well prepared...
That was always my approach. You are a woman after my own taken heart. That dish originated in Ancient Rome...ahh the memories. Yes, I am that old, in my soul.
thanx for the advice cav, i really appreciate it and i really am one of those romance kinda guys, im constantly doing the small gestures to show her i care, but any type of "physical" advice is welcome too guys
Massage, massage, massage!
EMSFD125 wrote:thanx for the advice cav, i really appreciate it and i really am one of those romance kinda guys, im constantly doing the small gestures to show her i care, but any type of "physical" advice is welcome too guys
As long as she knows you truly care, she'll be hot for you when you are both ready.
I can't really suggest any physical advice based on your posts, but perhaps Cinnesthesia has some advice. Some women love the nipple thing, some don't.
It's worth a try......then there's the dry hump...
Mmm...I kinda miss the dry hump....that was always great. Memories of summer camp....
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