I wanna talk to this boy I like since it doesn't seem like he will make the first move. The only thing is I don't know how to. I'm a very shy person and have almost never gone up to a guy myself to talk to them. He seems very shy as well since he is always alone. There have been several occasions where I would be able to say hi but my nerves have gotten the best of me. Any advice on how to approach him would help!
Or break out in a cold sweat and lie awake at night wondering "Does she like me or not even know I exist?"
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tony5732
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Thu 8 Sep, 2016 08:30 pm
@Erinmuchlinski,
1. Write phone number on paper.
2. Give paper to guy.
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High Strangeness
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Fri 9 Sep, 2016 03:44 pm
Erinmuchlinski said- "I'm a very shy person and have almost never gone up to a guy myself to talk to them"
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I can sympathise. I was madly in love with a girl at school 40 years ago but daren't talk to her, so I decided to try my very hardest to get up the nerve to speak to her.
I'm still trying..
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MontereyJack
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Fri 9 Sep, 2016 10:15 pm
@Erinmuchlinski,
Watch the DVD of "We Bought A Zoo". Matt Damon's take on the matter is "Sometimes all it takes is twenty seconds of insane courage. Just twenty seconds..."
"Hi, haven't I seen you around? I'm Jennifer" (obviously you customize this line if you aren't a Jennifer), and you stick out your hand for him to shake, which he will if he's not a complete boob. If he is, all you've lost is twenty seconds of your life, and you've actually done it, and it'll be much easier next time.
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Juliedespino
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Sat 10 Sep, 2016 03:14 am
@Erinmuchlinski,
Don't feel shy. Go and directly approach him. first start the conversation with small things.
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Foofie
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Wed 14 Sep, 2016 02:28 pm
Possibly a little humor can assist, pass him a folded small note saying inside, "Hi, I'm shy, my name is ________"