Oh goody............
Scrat,
Quote:I don't see why you think I meant what I meant, even though that's exactly what I meant..."
This is great! You got the joke! But am I mistaken, or did you take it personally? Or did you think the irony had escaped me? Or are you just laughing at a very good joke?
It is true, I must add, that you assumed I thought it outrageous, and it
was your idea whether it's true or not. You actually have no way to know for sure how I felt, especially in it's full ambivalence, even though you may have a sense that you are pretty sure (or that you know, in case you are one who forgets this principle). The evidence you took to indicate I was outraged could have other meanings to a person other than you.
here's what I wrote:
Quote:Pagan organizations? Does anyone know a charitable organization that describes itself as "pagan"? I don't know of one. But regardless, why would the above claim be true?
Can you tell me what you read here (other than your assumption about my possible tone of voice) that led you to believe I thought it outrageous? One might, from reading my sentence, even in the context in which it was written, assume that I
was outraged......but outraged about the
claim that pagan organizations couldn't be as caring as Christiian charitable organizations, rather than the concept of pagan charitable organizations. One can read this as a simple question.
We each have our own anticipated responses we expect from others. If it happens to fit, that's always lovely, but often, believe it or not, it is not accurate at all. So the fact that you were correct in this case doesn't have much to do with
why you assumed that I was outraged. But of course, that's your business. I wouldn't know. :wink:
I was surprised to find however later, after Blatham's post, that you believe your humor was at my expense. Interesting.
Quote:Hopefully she knows that I know that one idiotic comment does not an idiot make.
I do believe this, I really do. Now, knowing, I don't know about.......I don't exactly know anything, but I believe..............I can say with certainty that I believe it. Rest assured.
I'm glad you thought my joke was funny. I liked it myself. And it's very good to hear that you believe I can take it. It always feels good to be recognized.