Messing around at work

No argument with you on that. I practiced law with a gal who met her husband at the last firm she had worked at. She changed jobs (he was on partner track there, and she was not, so it made sense), and then they started dating.

My parents worked together for 40 years.

Neither one knew any other way. He was right out of the navy, and I think she maybe worked a few months at some office.