Scintillating--
Your rotten childhood already has you walking an uncommon path towards maturity. If you enjoy your Harvard guy, hang out with him for as long as the relationship lasts. If he's a needy type who requires a lot of admiration, you may have a life together--or you may not.
You wrote:
Quote:I always did everything very young..partying...sex...going out all the time, so I feel I have experienced more than most my age..I always had a fake ID. Do I like him for the wrong reasons? I know what I feel and I know what he tells me he feels. Though he probably just suduced me with his charm. Even if it doesnt "work" whats wrong with gaining some knowledge and traveling the world...I will only be one more step above the rest my age
I live in a rather stodgy world--lots of emphasis on books and family and personal ethics: Art galleries, museums, concert halls, volunteer activities; cooking; gardening: vigorous and courteous discussion....
I did my share of hell-raising in the '60's, but the life-forming experiences that have contributed to my maturity aren't the sort of experiences that you can accumulate with a fake ID.
In some ways you're a precocious party girl--and undoubtedly this is part of your charm in the eyes of your besotted swain. In other ways--such as choosing not to edit your question about the chances of love between a 16 year old dropout and a much older Ivy League man--you've got a lot to learn.
Enjoy while the band plays---but keep in mind that this romance may not last forever and keep an eye out for your lifeboat.
Good luck.