Fri 10 Jun, 2016 09:04 pm
My boyfriend refers to the home we bought together as, a your house, even though he paid over 90% of the cost. He claims it is because our living together is new. I think something is up? Am I reading too much into this?
I would have expected him to say "our", but "your" is way better than "my".
Whose name is on the deed?
Does he own more than one house, or plan to?
Yes something is up, your suspicion.
Resolve the uncertainty through discussion with your boyfriend.
Who decorated this new house?
He may feel like he's been left out in some areas, like how things should look and the purpose of each room.
I think you should not go deep down inside. Just take what your loves offers you.