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Reply Tue 24 May, 2016 03:21 pm
Hiii! I started going to a new school this year and in my class is this girl that started texting me. We haven't stopped chatting for 7 months now. At first I wasn't like even thinking about anything cuz I thought that she isn't good looking and things but lately... I started to like her... really like her. The thing is that I don't really have a chance to do anything. We chatted about her 3 year crush that is still carrying on and joked about that things when I didn't think about relationship with her and now I'm stuck not knowing what to do. We don't really talk much in school cuz girls keep being in the group and I don't have the chance to hang out with her outta school. She stayed up late (which she never does) a few times to chat with me... I felt like maybe there's a chance she started liking me but no... She still likes that guy... I'm hopeless cuz I feel so much for her and I want to make her the happy because I know that she really isn't happy now.... What should I do?
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Reply Tue 24 May, 2016 04:45 pm
@woodynho,
"She isn't good looking"
" I started to really like her"

Congratulations either you've realised that the inside of a woman is the most attractive thing of all, all that she is and in that, actually, she's good looking on the outside as well. Until you know someone, you can't assess them, what you meant was you "weren't attracted to her physically" which is normal.

You are both young. She felt/ feels 1) safe with you but also in my opinion, you are the person "male" she leans on as she misses this ex, misses a man in her life but her heart is still there.

Until she sees you the same way as you see her, she is going to pine for her ex. Keep her laughing, give her compliments, keep your distance romantically, yet, make her feel special. Time will tell whether she then actually starts to fall for you and gives your relationship together a chance but never, ever, if she does, start to wonder about the ex, it will eat at you and you'll crush the relationship. Time.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 24 May, 2016 10:08 pm
How about saying "Gee, you don't seem happy with this guy. How about changing boyfriends - to a guy like me, for example. LOL"
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Reply Tue 24 May, 2016 10:09 pm
@woodynho,
Do you ever spend time together outside of school?
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