Old crap. Love but apart!

Hmmm...do you realise you can phrase truth: tactfully, aggressively, respectfully, etc?
To me, these things (particular that in blue) speak of unhappiness. I'm not at all surprised from that description, that you found love elsewhere.

Uh, no. Many people have experienced being in love without cheating / You most definitely do not need to be cheating to have experienced being in love. Nor does having been in love/being in love mean that another person must agree with what you are doing. Plenty of people experience love together with a principle of not cheating. The quote contains terrible logic.

I didn't reply to other faulty logic, because the post is getting long, and you don't seem interested anyway.

From the way you write, it appears to me that you want to justify to yourself why no-one else can understand. Why everyone else is missing out on your secret. And from that, why no one else (except those who agree with you), have any say.

The first part is illogical nonsense that basically says
- 'if you don't agree with me, it must be because you have never been in love'

The second part is up to you, but says:
- 'if you have never been in love, you have no say.

Summarise that, and you get
- if you don't agree with me, you have no say.

So again I wonder...is there a point in anyone responding to your posts?

I think you are simply just stubborn.

You keep saying same things all over again.
I do not even understand why do you bother.
So you can stop now.

Perhaps you could stop posting questions when you aren't interested in hearing responses that don't agree with what you want to hear.

Sometimes the right person comes along at the wrong time. Sometimes the one you thought was your life partner is not. Not what you planned, but its how life turns out.

To all you judgemental people with the perfect lives and perfect relationships, well.. all I can say is Brangelina. And don't ask for trouble.

I reserve my rights to do what I pleased.
And I hope someone will come on board who actually knows
what she/he talking about.
I have found people I am talking to behind scenes so this post
brings its fruits.
I just don't understand why are you bent out of shape if you
are so satisfied with your love life?

You are welcome to do what you please. I have not told you to do anything.

So again, someone who agrees with you. For it's quite clear you don't want to hear anything else.


If you follow any of my posts, I tend to question peoples logic when they display flawed logic, or self deception - I happen to see a lot of that in your posts. I also tend to challenge peoples behaviour/rationale when they are needlessly aggressive - you happen to engage in a bit of that. If you wish to interpret that as being bent out of shape, that's up to yourself.

As I mentioned before, this forum is mental exercise for me (and in a way, your posts are interesting). And sometimes too, I can help people see things from different angles. Sometimes, like in this case, not.

It is it about agreeing with me. It is about understanding and sharing and
exchange same feelings, desires and be in touch with someone who is in the
same boat. To simply know that you are not alone and there are other soles
just like me who are awake at 3am thinking of what am I going to wear when
I see him next time knowing at the same time that he doesn't give a damn
what I wear because he is not here to be a fashion show judge! He is seeing
me for a totally opposite reason! Lol
So go ahead look for logic in love. Let me know if you find it. And no I had
not read your other posts. I am too busy thinking about sex. After 10 years
of not thinking about sex. So...let me go back to my business.

This part is very understandable.

When you asked:For many people, these can be quite serious questions. However, for you, it appears you didn't want an anyone to give their view on those questions. You just wanted to talk to someone with similar experiences who could provide support etc. That's fine - but perhaps you could have avoided all of this by not asking questions that you didn't want responses to, and stating that you just wanted support.

Love isn't about logic. And answers to questions like 'is this a right way to live' usually follow thematic patterns that can take into account the persons feelings, love, and attraction, values etc

We have been having two different conversations.

SO why don't you just convers with me as it goes. Sticking to OP is never a good idea when conversation unfolds