If you value virginity so highly, you should find someone who meets your standards.
I think virginity is over-rated, so the whole V card thing doesn't mean anything positive to me. There's no bonus in having sex with a virgin. It's mostly just an annoyance.
Separately, you've only been dating for two months. If you're just going to **** her because you don't want to be a lonely 30 year old , don't do it.
Find a different woman, and yes, I mean woman, not girl.