@tamtamthebrake,
As Coastalrat said - it's very difficult to almost impossible to send that sort of text by mistake:
- it's the sort of message you always doublecheck
- peoples phone numbers are usually stored under names - hard to think she got an entire name wrong
- it's unusual to make an accusation in such a way
Personally, I very much doubt the person who sent the text is truly your friend.
That said, as Fil also said, people wrongly accused are usually indignant...but not always. In other words, for many people - if you don't become indignant when you are accused of something you didn't do,
then you must be guilty - because you are feeling, and behaving, in a guilty way.
To me, your husband's behaviour reeks of 'testing for guilt'.
If that's the case, you are failing the tests.
Possible avenues include:
- talking it out
- having a 'fight' (
not physical), in order to stand up for yourself
- mediation
- couples therapy
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