Are my friends really haters?

My 2 separate friends have the same career goals as me. Both love attention. One doesn t go to school & doesn t really work. 2nd one goes to school too but in the middle of nowhere.

1st friend only hits me up when she s emotionally in a bad place with her bf & nags me, is clingy, & needy yet she thinks she s stronger than me. She expects me to sacrifice my time, school, work schedule around her needs & I don t think of her as supportive when I told her my struggles. I don t always publicize what I m going thru but she spilled her guts to me the first day I met her. She knows I make more money than her. She often steals my opportunities too. How can I tell if she s talking behind my back at work to our boss? She feels like she can boss me around, make me look bad & ruin my reputation. What does she have against me when all I do is listen to her problems & have done nothing wrong to her?

Second friend visited me in LA & found it funny that my card got declined. In public she roasted me for the next few days egging her friend to make fun of me too. At the club I denied a guy then he became disrepectful & said I m not as pretty as her. She made it clear she wanted me to hear that & made me repeat what he said. That same night she said we re all beautiful in our own way, we re like destiney s child & I m Michelle. A guy said don t ever let her play you for Michelle. She said, what you think you re Beyoncé? & laughed.

Why do these girls think they can run all over me?