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Tue 5 Apr, 2016 04:56 pm
For me, they are not. After what I personally have been through, what I have watched my friends/family go through, listening to people on the net, etc... At this stage I my life, I am going with "what's the point"?? Anyone else.... ?
@Medusax,
You will probably change your mind - several times.
@Medusax,
I get that. I'm basically a loner, but company of some sort is like a built in requirement. Figuring out the terms you want to have it on is the tricky bit.
@Leadfoot,
LOL!! I wasn't referring to FRIENDSHIPS....... I have no problem in that area....
@roger,
If I was a younger person, I would probably agree.
@Medusax,
You will have to define what a relationship is then, there are all kinds of relationships.
Are you asking if sex is really worth it?
@Medusax,
Quote:LOL!! I wasn't referring to FRIENDSHIPS....... I have no problem in that area....
You have a very limited concept of company/companionship. If you don't think your romantic relationships include that, your problem is obvious.
@Leadfoot,
Well then ....enlighten me.
@Medusax,
It's pretty simple. When looking for a lover, make sure they can be a friend first.
In my 60's and I had 3 serious relationships in my life including one marriage. They were all a bad deal for my partners.
I'm self absorbed and selfish with my time; not a bad thing in itself but not conducive to a relationship.
I have a ton of friends and enjoy my single status immensely.
Perhaps not everybody is cut out for relationships.
@Leadfoot,
You really thought you had to tell me that...LOL!!
@panzade,
I was married to the best husband ever. He died suddenly. The ones BEFORE him, and the one AFTER him, quite frankly, were a waste of air.
@Medusax,
Quote:You really thought you had to tell me that...LOL!!
Well, you asked, and your OP and other comments indicate you didn't know it.
@Medusax,
Medusax wrote: The ones BEFORE him, and the one AFTER him, quite frankly, were a waste of air.
were you good friends before you took them on as partners?
@panzade,
Sounds quite similar to myself.
@ehBeth,
Well, the last one I was friends with for a year beforehand. He turned out to be the worst of all of them as far as lying/cheating.
It depends...mines absolutely are.
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