@CeasarSalad,
CeasarSalad wrote:
Response to PQ:
We as human being may respectfully disagree and that's OK. For you using the Lords name in vain and having casual sex are not wrong. So I ask that if fornication, possible adultery, and blasphemy are not wrong, what in your opinion is wrong?
In my post I make it clear what I stand for, I encourage everyone here to make good decisions that they will not live to regret, to be the best they can be and to respect themselves and demand respect from others.
Doing things that hurt other people with no possible benefit to that person is wrong, that is all.
Quote:PQ, what do you stand for? What is your opinion on the concepts of sin and morality? You are 27yo now, do you expect your answers will change at 37, 47, 57? I've read your past post and they express both regret and growth in your decision making. I have definitely had similar experiences.
I stand for: freedom to do things that don't hurt other people, gender equality, exploring the world, learning, being open and being nice.
I expect my ideas will change, because they have changed, but that's fine. No one is without regrets but I would MUCH RATHER regret the thing I did do than the thing I didn't do. I've only got one life I don't want to waste it in exchange for another one which may not exist.
Quote:Not upset that you disagreed but I think the bashing from you and others was unfair and unnecessary. I believe the people that post here deserve to have all sides of the spectrum of opinions shared and then they can decide for themselves which path to travel. The consequences for bad decisions can have life long negative effects that if at all possible, it is better to avoid. Thoughts?
Yeah true. But your post wasn't constructive. You could have just said use a condom but instead you went along a sexist line of saying she can't do what she wants because she needs to make sure she is respected. Why should she care about anyone who might judge her for just sleeping with someone? Regrets, fair, like some women regret having abortions, but nobody really regrets sleeping with someone for the rest of their days unless they have some serious issues, most likely. It's not really that big a deal.
The action is HERS to regret if that's what she decides, but just because it is hers to regret does not mean it's YOURS to judge, big distinction there.
