I have received yet another unsolicited private message from the member calling herself Lilkanyon. This is the text:
Quote:I didnt know I had to give credentials to have an opinion in forums. I can also point out, you also did not claim to be a "native" english speaker, whatever that means. It hardly excuses you having the authority to tell people who to listen to or not. I do my best to respect the people that post, and I expect the same. Its just too easy to tell people to not listen to someone else. Its childish. I would expect better from someone like you, that I detect is intelligent, but insecure and uncomfortable with confronted with a different opinion. I want and hope to respect you, I hope I wont regret that decision.
This was my response:
Quote:Your English is poor, as this message shows. A native English speaker is one who has been raised in the English language, as you clearly were not. I exercise no authority, nor ever have claimed to. You bluster about "having an opinion." It is my opinion that your knowledge of English is poor enough that you have no business advising people about the English language. I have the same right to offer that opinion as you do to offer yours. As long as i see you offering bad advice about English, and probably confusing English language learners, i will offer that opinion.
In her other private message to me, she referred to Tes yeux noirs as my "butt buddy," and extremely disobliging epithet, expressing contempt for people on the basis of an unwarranted suggestion that they are homosexuals. I don't need this kind of sh*t, especially from someone setting up for an English language expert while showing skills no better than those displayed in the message quoted above. I will in future post her nasty remarks in whatever thread i happen to be participating in at the time. I don't want private messages from her, and don't intend to let her get away with such nastiness in private while attempting to pass herself off as reasonable and cordial in public--and all the while offering advice about English which she is not qualitied to give.
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My apologies to Tes yeux--i am not trying to drag him into my troubles. I suggest to him that he give Lilkanyon what she deserves, and ignore her.