what does this mean?

The caps hurt my eyes, but someone else might work their way through it.

i will type it up

That will be a big help to anyone who has something to say.

We were a couple for 3 years.. then today I get the “I have nothing to say text… our relationship has never been perfect… Lately its been feeling like a battle field.,, and I don’t know what I am doing wrong,, we hang twice a month, text every other week…sigh
On Friday I get a “sup” text and I said hey I am out of town this weekend. He asked why so I gave my reasons. I told him who I was with and where I was.. He didn’t text me till the next day and it said ok..
I never heard back.. I didn’t even hear from him on Monday.. He texted on Tuesday wanting to know about a concert on Friday.. I wanted to confirm if we were going. I never heard back…
Today I texted at 9am whats the plan for Friday and no reply..i texted at 2pm are u getting my texts
3pm I sarid “guess you are too busy with other ppl, to send a text… I was pissed….shouldnt have said that.. 8pm he texts I was sleeping thanks for that. I replied u left me hanging last night.. he replied no I did not. I said don’t feel like texting call me if u want… he says no its ok wanted to talk but that was days ago…
Me: what did you want to talk about? I haven’t spoken to you in over a week. So we going Friday? You could have called me. Please call this wont take long. If you got something to say then say it
Him: I have nothing to say the moment has past sorry
Me: Like always.. Whatever let me know about Friday,,
Him: By
Me: whats wrong with you? I don’t know whats up with you…I am not hear to fight.. you never want to talk… pls just pick up.. Are we over? I don’t even know what you wanted to talk about… you never said we needed to talk… I need to know about Friday.. is everything ok? Okay I guess your not in the mood to talk. I wont bother you. I miss u.. night.. U know was just being sarcastic in the first few text messages. U left me hanging.. and I guess ur too busy.. it wasn’t meant to be rude or make you angry.. Sorry if either message came out that way. I didn’t mean too. I am sorry

it feels like my heart has been ripped to shreads.. what do i do? Is it over? was this is way of saying goodbye? Please help me.

done..

I'm not one of the relationships gurus, but do note that you might have a clock ticking here. If the relationship is over and you are pregnant, you'll have to decide whether or not to have the child. Many jurisdictions limit abortions to the first part of the pregnancy, so you will want to figure out what you want to do sooner rather than later.

So you should figure out quickly if you really are pregnant (maybe see a doctor). And then if you are, you will want to figure out your relationship status with the guy as soon as possible so that you know where you stand and can make an informed decision on how to proceed with your life.

Why don't you actually talk - face to face - instead of texting?

Call and if one does not answer leave a message specifically saying lets meet face to face. Your post is difficult to read so forgive me if I missed this - but does this man realize you might be pregnant? If not, and you call and do not get an answer back - leave a message telling him I am sorry to leave this as a message, but since you have not returned my calls to make arrangements to meet, I have to leave this as a message I may be pregnant - that would get his attention enough to at least meet face to face.

All this texting I think is breaking up more relationships - the mis-understanding and ease of being mean as you do not see the other person makes it seem much less personal.

When possible - talk to the people you are in relationships with.

Texting leaves too much room for misunderstanding. The tone can be misread. i.e. the tone of your texts would have annoyed me if I'd received them - that doesn't mean you meant to be annoying.

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Sounds like he wanted to talk to you about the relationship last week and now he's had time to think and is over the relationship.

Figure out if you are pregnant - there's no point in guessing about it - and no point in telling him if you are guessing. If you are pregnant, talk to him about it.

If you are not pregnant, take the opportunity to work on communicating better in the future.

Hopefully you are not texting in all caps as that is beyond rude.