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							Wed  2 Mar, 2016 03:22 pm
						
						
					
					
					
						Their is this girl in my church
some how i started liking her 
but i was shy to say something nd i wanted to found out if d feeling was mutual ( she nomal stair at me most time ) nd som oda signal  dat she also like me
 so when i told her i loved her she said some thing summary of what she said that she does nt want to rush into relationship that we should start as friends, she also said that they were also oda guys dat d way she said but she told them no and she said she is nt putting together wit d those guys
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so am confuse what should i do ? 
  
					
				 
				
						
														
					
													@Davidsuccess,
												I don't know either. It does seem like she likes you, but I'm not crazy about the idea of starting as friends. It can be really hard to go from friendship to a romantic relationship. It's called 'being friend zoned'. Still, if that's all she's willing to offer at the moment, you pretty well have to accept it and hope for the best. That, or look elsewhere.
											
 
					
				 
																									
						
														
					
													@roger,
												Vry had to look else where
am nt that type of guy
											
 
					
				 
																									
						
														
					
												You came on WAY too strong . . . slow down. 
She wants to be friends. What's so hard about that?
Never tell a girl you don't know that you "love her.' That's creepy.