Feeling self conscious about a fetish

Sorry, but this isn't even a very interesting fetish. It is rather normal... mundane even. I don't see any reason that you should be self conscious about this. I certainly don't see any reason for you to try to "remove" this.

You should accept your sexuality.

When you are in a relationship, you should certainly communicate this to your partner.

In a good relationship, partners communicate what turns each other on to each other and as long as it isn't harmful or extreme a good partner will oblige.

I am sure that most women would be fine with wearing thongs for their lover. And likewise you should be willing to wear whatever turns on your partner.

That's not really a fetish. I suspect almost every young man in the U.S. share your interest in women wearing thongs. That's no different than guys liking blondes or guys liking curvy women. That's not really a fetish.

I agree with the previous speakers that there's nothing wrong I can see here... a fetish well is smth like turning on if a person wears thongs at least on the head I dunno hehe and even in this case there's still nothing wrong, just preferences that don't do any harm to anybody

Your confusing the difference between having preferences and with having fetishes. Most people have preferences. However, when you can’t have satisfaction UNLESS someone uses a strap on makes you (or them) bleed, then having a fetish is not healthy and is something of concern.