@joell,
...jealousy implies a sort of relation is established already. Also jealousy is a very bad way of getting there without consequences that will strike back with double force...
My advise ? well best wait for a women to look at you while you are strictly being yourself. Don't exclude your ridicule self from the equation, don't be a fake. They love specially to discover our little ridiculous natural details. She will know if you are right before you even notice her...