My husband thinks it's ok to bring Single girls home

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Hi all.

Recently felt that there was no choice but to end my marriage of nearly 4 years. We're a couple in our late twenties early thirty and I love my husband very much but he does thinks that confuse and hurt that he thinks is actually ok.

I wanted an impartial persons opinion both men and women please.

Our relationship has always been difficult but the straw that broke the camels back for me was when my husband goes out clubbing with guy work friends I'm never invited cos "it's a guy thing" but then one of the guys in the group arranges to.meet up with the new girl his seeing and her friend......its hear about it next day.....hmm don't like it too much but ok

Few weeks later I invite hubby's friend and the new girl our for a night out and new girl tells me in my home in front of my friends that she and her friend after a night of dancing and drinking come back to.my home with my husband and his guy mate.

I felt so hurt that my husband kept it a secret. And he claims that nothing happened. But how does a married man's mind work that he think it's ok to go out on a lads only night and end up back at his marital home with his mate andnsld two single girls while his wife's at work and doesn't know about it.

He treats me like I'm insane like this is normal.

Please can I have god dam verdict here.
Please

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[+3] - jespah - 02/17/2016He's taking advantage of the fact that you work nights. Even if nothing happened at all, and he was a saint the whole evening, he still brought someone into your home without telling you or...

@hurtwife1987,

I think when you tell a significant other that what he is doing has caused you distress, and his response is that you don't understand, it's just innocent fun; he's really saying, my fun is more important than your feelings.

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I think he's a selfish nutbag and that in the long run, you'll be better off without him. That's not easy for you, i know. You'll have to decide if the benefits of your relationship outweigh the pain. Only you can answer that.

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@hurtwife1987,

He's taking advantage of the fact that you work nights.

Even if nothing happened at all, and he was a saint the whole evening, he still brought someone into your home without telling you or clearing it with you. That's just plain rude.

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