So desperate for a boyfriend, and scared I'll never find one?

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"Dont look for a relationship, you'll find one eventually" and "there's someone out there for everyone"... I've been told this so many times by people but it really doesnt help. I've never had an SO and I'm just tired of being lonely. I am 20 years old and some strangers call me beautiful/pretty and some strangers don't (I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not everyone will think I am attractive). I just want someone that I care about, and that cares for me. Someone that I can feel safe with, Someone that can cuddle with me and I can fall asleep in his arms :') Just sounds so wonderful. But I am scared that I will be too old before finding or a bf or I will not find one at all. I always think and dream about falling in love that the more I wait, the more I want it (love). I don't know what do to?

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[+4] - jespah - 02/01/2016Got to places where there are people who do the things you like to do, whether it's knitting, exercise, gardening, cosplay, or God knows what else. Join clubs where you get to do your fun things....

@havokb,

I'd say wait 5 more minutes. After all, you're 20...and have 60 more years, more likely.

Hve patience.

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@havokb,

Got to places where there are people who do the things you like to do, whether it's knitting, exercise, gardening, cosplay, or God knows what else. Join clubs where you get to do your fun things. You will meet people. Some will be of the gender you don't prefer. Others will be attached. Don't worry. They know people. You will meet folks - and they won't just be interested in your looks.

Beauty fades. A mutual interest in cooking or old movies should last a bit longer.

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@havokb,

What are you doing to meet people? are you doing any of the things jespah has suggested?

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@jespah,

dont join clubs for guys who hunt for rocks. They are only interested in sex

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@ehBeth,

I have been joining clubs but guys don't seem to take interest in me.

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@havokb,

It's been 2 or 3 days. Give it a chance Smile

Oh, and do some of the heavy lifting. Talk to people.

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