Cheating wife?

Hey guys.

I know it sounds total cliché, but my buddy indulges everything in me tells me everything as he really doesn't have very many friends so one night he asked me to go to the casino. I agree. I like the casino, Lord knows I didn't think I would get into this deep with him in his marriage.


He went on vacation once, with his aunt and uncle and wife. He passes the first night he was there, drank too much kind of fell asleep early ,his wife and family continue to party. Here is where it gets juicy. He was getting breakfast at a buffet and waiting to get an omelette made when a guy approached him about seeing his wife and uncle at the dance bar. He asked if the younger woman was his wife. He said she was. He ten asked him to go outside so they can talk as he needed to tell him something. He said that he saw his his wife dancing with the uncle. He said it got pretty risqué they were groping dancing face to face noses touching so on so forth, after that he says after one song they went outside for 20 minutes came back inside of the dance club and proceeded to not talk to each other, and kind of I don't want to say feel uncomfortable but he said they didn't interact the entire rest of the night.


He was upset but didn't jump to conclusions. When he asked his wife about it she had said she didn't remember anything and that he was being paranoid. She put blame on the guy who told him this ****. So He confronted her about a year later A little bit more truth came out each time he confronted her about it but still he is not yet to get a definitive answer what do you guys think about this issue do you think that she did do something with him or do you think that he's just kind of over assuming things. He keeps asking me for advice and I don't have any for him. Maybe you guys can help him. Your not friends with him and I look forward to your non filtered comments. But please this is a serious matter and he is really devastated. Keep it classy.


The next one he had mentioned is that his wife went out of town for a friends wedding. When she returned he asked her if she danced with anyone. (Because he dances with other women so he asked playfully.) she said no. But she had a wierd tone about her. So he asked with a little more bluntness and she came clean and said she danced and that's it. He brought it up once again and she said this time that they hung out for most of the night. He was an old **** buddy of hers while she was in college so that kind of made him feel uneasy. So he came to me.


He asked me to check this guy out. As I work for a agency that has access to people. I did. The guy came back clean. But he wanted his last name. I didn't give him his last name. But he found it anyways because his wife and posted pictures on Facebook and had him in the background with him tagged in it. He private message the guy asking him what it happened if anything went down or anything like that basic super paranoia. The guy a message back saying that they hung out most of the night she was rubbing up on him touching him she kept talking about reminiscing of why he didn't want a girlfriend at the time zone. So when he asked her about it one more time she said that he tried to kiss her which was a huge lie. He said that she tried to kiss him and backed off as he had a girlfriend.


I want to know what you guys think. Like I said this is a serious matter with him and I respect that you don't have a filter but please don't treat this as a joke true honesty is OK but not blatant disrespect. I don't have any more answers for him and I'm hoping that I can maybe get some good tips from you guys. This isn't some boyfriend girlfriend high school relationship is the marriage has been going on for 10+ years.