Does he have a crush on me? *male answers prefered*

yes.

Thanks for your help! =)

How can you tell?

Only based off what you've written. If you are honest he has a crush on you.

Thank you so much!!

If he does have a crush on me, what should I do?

That depends on what you want to happen.

Do you want to date him? Do you want to just be friends? Do you want him to disappear and never bother you again?

I guess I kind of want to be more than friends. I'm assuming that you think he has a crush on me? Is there anything I should do?

So, you want to build a relationship with him. I am guessing that you are both teenagers (correct me if I am wrong). Every relationship is different, but usually there is a flirting stage, then a time when you are both sure of mutual interest, and then some sort of relationship is established (I am old, but we used to call it "going steady").

It is hard to give specific advice without knowing either you or him. But I will try to offer some suggestions.

I think making it clear to him that you are interested in being more than friends is good thing. It will let you and he talk directly about your feelings rather than this game of trying to guess what the other person is thinking.

Simply saying to him "you know I like you... and I want to be more than friends" is one way to do this. It will give him a chance to tell you directly how he is really feeling about you. Some people will tell you that you should always let the boy make the first move. This depends a lot on how things are generally done where you live (i.e. your culture). But simply telling him how you feel doesn't stop this from happening. It may give this boy the confidence he needs to pursue this relationship.

The other option is to do the flirting game... which is less direct but sometimes more fun. You can make someone know about your interest without saying anything. One problem with this is that sometimes young people don't communicate well. No matter what you do, the poor boy might just never get it.

In my (many years of) experience. At any stage of a relationship things work better when there is good communication. He needs to know for sure that you have interest, and you also need to know what he is feeling.

I hope this is helpful.

Omg, I can not thank you enough!!! I want to thank you for taking all of this time to help me out. I will definitely keep these tips in mind for if I would ever date him (or any other guy) when I am older Thank you so much for making my day! =) =) =)

I was doing a social experiment to see how much advice someone was willing to give a stranger. Thanks again for "helping" me out Have a nice day! And I hope you keep making people smile =)

he is likely a very shy guy but your friends know the truth that is why they tried to set you up. i was that guy , prob is in most cases nothing ever happens if you never take the the initiative, just this once. Shy guys usually don't act upon their feelings at times coz of fear of rejection. Show him you like him too is the least you can do.

Thanks for the help! =) He is a very shy guy, the first attempt at asking me out to the dance he ran away before asking (most likely because of my friends) I just think my friends are jealous

I forgot to add that he has been sitting at a closer table to mine at lunch lately.

The next dance is coming up (less than 2 weeks) and he hasn't asked me yet. (he asked me way earlier for the other dance) Do you think he will ask me sometime soon? I've already been asked by someone else, but I said no because i'm pretty sure he will ask me. (maybe) Am I getting too worked up over this guy?