Any thoughts on that? I gave him every excuse possible not to spend time with me...
No. It's an ego thing with me
You are 48 years of age, don't play games. I mean that nicely.
If a 48 year old woman had sexual relations with me, we'd been on 4 dates and each time, she's trying to then get rid of me, so I offer breakfast, $20, something because I am interested and at the end, she still doesn't bother calling, has an ego and just had sex with me, in my opinion I am done. I don't need to be treated as a booty call.
It works in reverse as well.
(Edit) I just read the rest of your replies.
You are angry that he didn't call, so now he's a dick-head. Read the above, it's more than likely you created this scene of non events, as you ensured they were all non-eventful due to EGO, ditch it.
(Edit) 2 - I am a female, so my above paragraph is "if I was a man and you did that to me".