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what should I do??

 
 
Cmora
 
Reply Fri 1 Jan, 2016 02:45 pm
I've had a long distance relationship for two years. Long-distance relationship made us not able to met every day, drive me crazy!! But despite that we were very much in love each other.

He was studying Japanese literature. Make him frequent travels to Japan, and that makes me jealous he always surrounded by local girls. There are some girls who approached him and said they really likes the white man.
Is it fair if I am jealous or I was too excessive?

For some reason I decided to leave him because I can no longer make a relationship with him. I know I had hurt his feelings, of course I hurt too. But what I did purely for his happiness. It turned out that I did wrong decision. Until now I can't forget him.. I still love him..

I've tried to call him with my different number, but it seems he has changed his number. Should I send an email to him to apologize? Or better if I give up? I tried to love another man but I can't.
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jespah
 
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Reply Fri 1 Jan, 2016 03:08 pm
@Cmora,
How long since you broke it off?

Give yourself a cooling off period of, say, a week, to think it over.

Remember why this bothered you.
Cmora
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 12:39 pm
@jespah,
It's been quite a long time we broke up. It's just that I want to apologize to him and if possible I want him back to me.. But I really do not know whether there will be a chance for me..
By the way, thanks for your advice Jespah ^^
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 12:41 pm
@Cmora,
Cmora wrote:
I've tried to call him with my different number, but it seems he has changed his number. Should I send an email to him to apologize?


leave the poor guy alone. you had your chance, he learned his lesson.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 12:45 pm
@Cmora,
Cmora wrote:
It's just that I want to apologize to him and if possible I want him back to me.


no. you had your chance to be a good girlfriend and messed up.

consider it a chance to learn to be better in future relationships.
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Cmora
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 12:48 pm
@ehBeth,
I wish I could.. Ahh stupid me :'(
But, thanks ehBeth ^^
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 12:51 pm
@Cmora,
You don't think you'll handle future relationships better?
Cmora
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 01:18 pm
@ehBeth,
Actually I try to date several times, and nothing wrong with them. I just feel stuck.. probably because of guilt..
ehBeth
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 01:19 pm
@Cmora,
Keep on meeting new people. Not just dates - go on group outings, join clubs.
Cmora
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jan, 2016 01:28 pm
@ehBeth,
Of course I did it Smile
Once again.. Thanks ehBeth ^^
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