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Thu 17 Dec, 2015 05:54 pm
Ive known this girl for more than a year,i asked her out last year few months after i met her.but she told me she wasnt ready for a relationship now due to her family responsibilities,asking me if i could wait for her till after college.i was confused but i agreed,,,she confessed her true feelings some time ago that she loves me,but i dont know if i can wait that time for a girl.please help me...do you think she's worth waiting for??cus im confused
@Dickson Elijah,
How can you tell is she's worth it, unless you get to know her?
Is this an arranged marriage?
Tell this girl that you MUST spend time and see each other to see if your love is real and true.
@PUNKEY,
No we've not said anything about marriage,,,,
i feel she's worth it cus ive been with her for almost a year and she's been totally different from every girl i met.
Im having mixed feelings because i feel the love i have might be blinding me.thats all.
Are you "with her"?
Are you dating and seeing each other often?
@PUNKEY,
No im not with her.she wants me to wait.
I dont see her often,at least not anymore,the last time i saw her was days ago and before that i saw her last 7months ago.
@Dickson Elijah,
How long have you been dating?
@Dickson Elijah,
Dickson Elijah wrote: ive been with her for almost a year
no - you haven't been with her for a year
you were interested a year ago and you're still not dating
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Spend time with other people, get to know them. If you're still interested when she's got time for you then go for it.
@ehBeth,
Thanks sis.
I think ill stick to your advice