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Sat 5 Dec, 2015 12:50 pm
I love a girl for around a year n recently she came to know that I love her. She was upset, when asked, she told, her bf ditched her because of different caste. What should I do? Should I propose her or help her to fix her issues?
Please suggest...I'm confused totally.
@Koli,
How long ago was this? If her boyfriend left her last week, it's a little too early to do anything.
In the meantime, be a friend. I am assuming this is India, so that also means becoming acquainted with her family. Be a good person, not some guy out to date her and nothing more.
@jespah,
Thanks.
It was approx 2 yrs of relationship, and this ditched thing happened a couple of months ago. But she told me a few days back, and told me only.
So what's the best time to say her that I love her?
@Koli,
Christ on a cracker, do you even hear yourself?
Go slowly. Be friendly. Don't go from 0 to 60 in 10 seconds. Most people are creeped out by that.
@Koli,
U just need to be closer! It's all about time
@Koli,
How long have you been dating this woman?
@Koli,
Koli wrote: this ditched thing happened a couple of months ago. But she told me a few days back, and told me only.
So what's the best time to say her that I love her?
first you ask her out on a date
if after a few months of dating it seems like she might be interested in a future with you, you talk about love
you don't talk about love before you start dating, become emotionally intimate with someone