@ehBeth,
Quote:if you looked at my A2k ignore list, you'd see that the majority is people whose opinions I agree with but whose mode of expression doesn't work for me.
I don't know how you draw between people with "dissenting opinions" and people who you call "asshole". "Mode of expression" is an interesting term... does this mean abusive behavior, or something else?
Personal attacks cross a line for me... but even then I am hesitant to label anyone an asshole. I can't think of anyone whose point of view I would want to completely exclude before considering it.
In my experience on Able2know the people who are attacked with labels like "asshole" are singled for their opinions, not for their behavior. The most abusive posts on Able2Know, where people are personally attacked sometimes with vulgar epithets, come from from popular posters with the in crowd who I think you like and support.
I don't think they are on your ignore list.
What good is it to divide the world between "assholes" and "non-assholes"? I don't think this is a healthy way to look at the world, especially if you want to be part of a diverse community.
Gated communities might be a way to stop the level of personal attacks against people whose ideas or mode of expression don't fit in with the core group here. The worse case would be if there are several communities that each thinks all the others are "assholes" and never talk to each other (not that that doesn't describe the world we live in).