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Mon 30 Nov, 2015 07:00 pm
I am a 24 year old guy who has only had sex once in a long time ago. I met this girl about 3 week and we are really hitting it off. Our first and second date went really well but it was the end of the second that didn't go too well. During our date, we got intimate at the place we were, I got a little aroused and pre cummed a little. I knew I was doomed but continue to go to her apartment. We got intimate again, but I was not able to get aroused again. I was embarrassed about it and I was planning to leave, but I thought that would make things even more awkward. We tried again, but again, I was not able to so I just fingered her and still were intimate after the embarrassing moment and spent the night. My question is, would it be weird if I give her oral on the next date, which would be our 3rd date? I am working on controlling my erection, but I have a feeling there is a good possibility this problem could come up again so I have to find some way to please her. I've never done oral either, but I'll be watching video before my next date.
You are awesome!! Thinking ahead and stuff and wanting to please her. She's lucky.
It's ok if she wants you to.
Try to feel (and act) confident.
You're a mensch!
@Lash,
Thanks. As embarrassing as it sounds, I hope I can control myself, but I guess it takes time. I just make sure I please her because we really like each other, but having this incident again, I feel can cause problem to the early relationship we have.
@loveyours94,
If you give oral, it can do wonders for your own problem if you approach it with the right attitude.
@loveyours94,
Do you guys think I should let her know about my inexperience with sex? When we were making out, I told her I'm sorry, I got too excited and she said that ok and just continue kissing.
@loveyours94,
She already knows. Keep being a giving partner and it doesn't matter. You have a good thing. Stop worrying and just enjoy it.
@maxdancona,
Thank Maxdancona. I know I shouldn't worry about it but that just how I am. If she so happen to leave because of the incident, then its probably not the type of girl I would want to be with because she's not holding her man down.
@loveyours94,
Serious suggestion...
If you're worried about ejaculating too soon, try masturbating to orgasm before your date.
It could help take the edge off.
@loveyours94,
My response is thus.
Have intercourse for the sake of reproduction only.
Anything else is merely self-indulgence and submission to carnal desire.
If you cannot control your own desires - they will control you.
Sticking your face in someone's urinating, menstruating, thrush/cystisis and clamydia production zone may be socially acceptable and promoted by this Mental society, we now reside in...
But, Seriously?
DOES IT MATTER?
@mark noble,
Hey Mark. I think it would be better for us all if you didn't have intercourse for the sake of reproduction.
@maxdancona,
And I think if all of you never existed, humankind would be more sensitive to its surroundings and look upon those who, accepted facialising genital sewers as fictional monstrosities.
@mark noble,
Noble. Never had a blow job?
This may be the reason for your perpetually surly mood! I have a prescription for what ails you. Based on your personality, I think you're gonna need about $400.
But it may change your life.
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