Everyone talks to girls except me.

Forget being with her, learn from the experience, don't act like a jerk (however you acted that concluded any interest in you).

Girls are people, not some other whole breed. Consider simply talking to them.

Try to talk to any girl as though you would speak to a family member.

I can't forget about her. I was always nice to her, but i didn't act like myself. I'm usually so different, when i'm with people i'm not nervous to be with. It's like it wasn't the real me, who she hung out with.

no

no you have not been in love with her for years

you've liked her

you've had a crush on her

you have not been in love with her

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it is possible that you are not mature enough to couple date yet

do you go out in any group mixed-gender social events? stick with those til you get more comfortable

it's hard to remember but really, young woman aren't really any more special or interesting than other young men you know

and seriously, who wants to date someone as nasty as she is?

find someone nice to go out with

I don't go to mixed gender events at all. Girls don't really seem interested in me :/

that will change as you relax and move away from anxiety...and accept girls as just regular people.

There was a guy who used to post here a lot called Slappy Do Hoo. He was a young guy, totally crazy, a bit of a player. He gave someone the best dating advice I've ever heard, which surprised the hell out of me.

I wish I could remember his words exactly but they amounted to -- the worst thing that can happen if you take a chance is that the object of your attraction will say "No". If they do, just move on. It wasn't meant to be. It doesn't mean that you're broken or unloveable or anything else other that the timing wasn't right or the person wasn't right for you.

It boiled down to: if you never ask, the answer is always "no", so it's always worth taking a chance that you might get a "yes".

Ah, Slappy, I miss him. I used to argue with him, until one day I changed my mind.. (that was all about going too far re jokes).

Slappy and his sidekick ese edgar used to say the most disgusting things but they did it in a way that made me laugh out loud.

That's a good advice. I'm not really into anyone other then her. I probably will later on, and that advice is gold when that time comes. I'm in a study group on friday with two girls (one of them is her) and i'll see how it goes. If there's any connection like there was last time we were in a study group, then i might just ask her out again. Maybe she changed her mind, and if not then whatever. I'll move on if that's the case. It's my last try, and if she really just isn't into me, and she really never will then that's okay.

Start with mixed gender events.

Join clubs at school where there are young men and young women, join a softball team, more study groups ...

You'll never get used to hanging out with young women if you don't hang out with them.

They're not Martians.

nahhh

it's not like you'll never see each other after Friday (is it?)

try to relax ... and remember there are nicer people than her out in the world

By last try i mean, i won't chase her anymore. Were in the same class. We see each other everyday.

Well i kinda already do that, because i have study groups almost everyday.

Oooh, a manipulator..