A like or else?

This guy is a diner floor manager. I just want to know if I'm a friend or more.
1)He remembers me after 3 months absence.
2)He always greets me in an obvious way.
3)He always comes by and not only check on the order but he chats with me about general topics.
4)He shows me that he wants me to be near him. He dislikes when I sit outdoor.
5)He stalls my order or let me wait for the check like 15 minutes or even doesn't get me all my order once. (He said it out loud in front of my family that he did it on purpose)
6)He invited me in a casual way to the launching of a new menu item before publishing it.
7)He notices if I come frequently and infrequently (sometimes) and he always asks about it.
8)When we talk to each other he leaves everything. Even needy customers.

The inconvenients:
1) He never spoke to me on facebook or took my phone number.
2) He ignored my presence twice, once after I added him on facebook (I did it after I lied about forgetting his name)
3)He's been in a relationship but I hardly notice any action or pictures of both of them together.








8)When we talk, he ignores people. He even once refused to give the menu
to new comers. He asked for a waiter to do so. Even though he was near the counter.
8)He went blank when my friend lied and told him that I don't remember his name.

For the inconvenients:
1)He didn't ask for my number nor added me on facebook. I added him after the "forgotten his name" scene.
2)He ignored that I was there once. I was with my girlfriend.(the time after I added him on facebook)
3)He apparently isn't a "liker" on facebook