If you want my honest opinion, you are very clingy and needy.
I see that he is trying to tell you that you two can be individual people, living your own lives, yet as one, married. That you see, if you cry, if you yell, if you demand, if you ask, he must come to all of those immediately and he must just live for you, not live a life.
This is not a marriage and this is not good for you either, you need to be individual people "coming together" but leading lives that are both separate and together.
I do think that he loves you but he's trying to give you a very strong message that you are not listening to.
I don't know if he can "handle you" as you want a knight. You should want a man, who loves you.