Men!! Is it true?

It varies. Perhaps an assortment of 100 diff men would have 100 different issues or causes.

Why are you asking>?

2 ideas.

1) Gonna come along with a link to herbal Viagra or a confederate will. You know, the stuff that has seriously threatened the life of Lamar Odom. Yeah, that stuff. It's barely legal and won't be at all legal in the US for much longer.
2) Trying to figure out if a lover/husband/whatever is faithful or in love.

Or #3 Nosy as ****.

Yes, yes, it is true, sometimes men can't.
There are probably many lists for that, not excluding a variety of pills or concoctions of bits of rare animals combined with fervor for magic.

Guilt is another possible cause.
Try it out.

I wanted to see if it was a talking-responding BOT.

Why not ask the man in question? Every man is different (the same way that every woman is different). I have had times where I have not finished (for one reason or the other).

Speaking for myself (and that is all I can do)... if I get an erection with you, that is a pretty good sign that I find you attractive. Of course, if I didn't find you attractive, I wouldn't be in bed with you in the first place.

The best sexual relationships are based on communication and trust. If you find yourself with a man who doesn't ejaculate, talk to him about it and trust what he says.

No I am a human lol I'm asking because I had a baby 5 months ago. Before I it pregnant I was fit, going to the gym 1-2 times a day and confident. Understandably, I don't quite feel like myself yet and there has been a few times where my partner hasn't "finished." I've heard there are reasons for this, but I just can't help but wonder if his reason is because he's not attracted to me anymore. One time he said it was because I was "too wet" and he couldn't finish. I just wonder how my changed body has affected how attracted he is to me. Thank you for responding.

Thank you for responding. I have asked him and one time he said it was because I was "too wet." Besides being embarrassed I was also left questioning if that was true due to the fact that I had a baby 5 months ago.

If he said you were "too wet" than that is pretty clear. Friction is important for a male orgasm, if you have too much moisture, that friction may be hard to come by.

You could always help him finish with your mouth (or less preferably with your hand).

There can be all kinds of reasons a man may find it difficult to cum. Every man and every situation is going to be different. I am going to guess that some common reasons a guy may have a hard time cumming is because not enough time has elapsed since the last time he came. Another reason may be he came to often over a certain period of time. Another reason is the sexual sensation doesn't feel good enough to cause him to cum.

I'd say that if a man doesn't find a woman attractive, he won't be able to get an erection, which pretty well precludes ejaculation. Of course, men who are into rape might be able to perform, so long as it gives them a sense of power.

My apologies. We do get a lot of spam here, so I was skeptical.

I know there are men who have issues with their partners' postpartum bodies. It's not necessarily a feeling of a loss of attraction as it could be generalized oddness. Lots of changes have happened in a pretty short amount of time - to you, to him, to your household, etc.

Talk - and perhaps with your doctor or a trusted medical professional. Maybe they've got suggestions.

Loss of concentration is my guess. He's being distracted by something. =

Get his attention back. Talk sexy or dirty to him. Change positions. Look into his eyes. Get on top.

Your "wetness" has nothing to do with it. (He should be so lucky)

Nothing quite like giving 110% utilising all your best moves only to be greeted - at the point of climax - with "Mmm, I don't know? What do you think? Red curtains or blue."

For anyone who thinks that this is anything more than a need for a couple to communicate and trust... let me ask this question.

How would your answers change if the genders were reversed? If this were a man whose female partner was not reaching orgasm every time they had sex... how would your opinions change?

In either case, my opinion is that sexual partners should talk these things out... and listen to each other. Having a sexual partner freak out with judgement and doubt because your body isn't acting the way they feel it should doesn't sound like very much fun to me. Part of any long term physical relationship is acceptance.

Thank you, lots of changes in general makes sense. I was also thinking I may not be coming off as confident which throws him off possibly.

I ironically agree. When I did question his performance it's almost like he seemed embarrassed. Im just realizing this now though, after hearing what other men have to say. I guess it isn't fair of me to question his prefrmance when I don't orgasm every time.

Well, I think it depends on the age. But if he's not drunk than it might be a pretty unusual sign if he cannot come. I'm not so sure this has to do something with attraction or not. Might be something entirely different.