Getting along

Are you trying to be an idiot?

No, I suppose you aren't but it seems so.

Do you have no self esteem?
Gather your wits.

whatever secret thing you take will be revealed, don't trust that ****.

Excuse me, I didn't mean eh beth is an idiot. Last thing I might ever say.

Or use the book code to send really creepy secret messages to them until they are freaked out enough that they want to keep their distance.

Gotta be careful though not to send anything that can be misconstrued as a threat, or this pair of manipulators will be off to the police to misconstrue it.

Wow, wow, obsess? I seriously regret not taking any concrete interest sooner, because if I knew enough about them, I would've used the book and mind what I post sooner and this wouldn't have happened. It was only after he said that I ought to study the book to relate to him properly that I started reading it, maybe two weeks ago. Then I learned what's going on.



People are not quite anonymous there. Everyone writes what's happening with them and who they are. And grandpa did his best to summarize everything he's posted over the past 8 years to introduce himself to me. It seems you are unable to recognize my need for activity outside of relating to them. Why is that? I didn't play any games, AND I was polite to try to end his hostility. And it is impossible not to notice how they relate to one another... Another thing I have come to understand in the meantime is that they are unable to communicate without manipulating people and one another.

I don't use the book, so he believes that I subconsciously write things that speak the truth to him because he is on a "mission from God to expose me for my mask". He didn't send me anything, the book was written over 40 years ago. He is a complete slave to it.

There are other forums, and even though that one is dying, they hold the biggest amount of data on the matter, so it attracts experts and you get to learn from them. So, why should anyone leave because a silly grandpa that proudly believes he is the chosen one is making himself feel better by
1. trying to convince himself and his jealous darling that he is still sexy and
2. by pissing on other people because his own life sucks?

That was largely incoherent . . . but whatever floats your boat.

What? I'll gladly give ALL the details, if that's OK on this forum. Grandpa sure does deserve that. If you are not interested, please refrain form any further posting.

It was his skilled use of the book that made him an authority in the field, so people will believe him.

I'm unsure what would be so important to learn that you'd want to subject yourself to such a creepy forum, but I keep thinking back to my original advice.

If you want to learn "whatever" at that forum, just ignore those two people and grab the knowledge that you came there for.

Once you've got the knowledge that you seek, slip out quietly and don't look back.

And don't divulge any of your personal information. If you are required to do so, make something up. Your latest description of them makes them sound somewhat cult-ish.

You are right. I was just about to reply to your previous post, sorry. Thank you so much for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate that!

They already know who I am, but I have a little more information on them than they do on me. Authors gather there, so everyone posts who they are.

He is cultish, and she happily accepts whatever he believes. People use the book worldwide, but nobody else shares their views on interpretation, as he says. It's gotten funny!

We live in different time zones, so, that is important when deciphering posts too. I tried to adapt one time. He once sent a "code" that said "glorify the past, admire me for my age", to which I responded with a code: "forget the past" but kindly, to calm him down and make him stop. But, I forgot to mind his timezone and it turned out to mean "you are the greatest" on his end ahahahahaha I swear it is like watching a comedy show. I mean, how boring is it to make scripted messages? I forgot to mind the time on his end...

And also, the things in my life have unfolded in a way and I shared, but, everyone will believe my words were directed to him, no matter what I wrote about. And the admins will analyse my traffic and think that I inspected his posts because I am attracted to him, not because I was trying to find a way to calm him down and end his hostility.

Ignoring won't help, because I was unaware of the habit of deciphering and he "communicated" despite knowing that. If I go back, he'll "expose" me to the members. The book says he is not to stop "shooting at me" until around December 2016. And that the hostility cannot end before December 2030. He believes that my username relates to "doom that even Jesus had to accept".

I even wrote how old my dad is and how much I want to date a man I met at work for a number of times, but he always finds a way to alter the meaning, he thinks he is that man I am talking about and that everything I say has to do with sex and with him.

Some of his latest codes are "sacrificing virgins", "boxing in the ring" and "I hope you'll drown for your bad luck". That means, if I go back, he'll "expose" me. I must find a way to show him where the limit lies.

Have you talked to your parents about this? it sounds like you are in a cult and unable to leave independently.

no. no you don't have to show him anything.

be careful not to reveal any personal details about your family or location on the forum

Hahaha, you are right, it does sound like that ahahaha, but, no, it's not a cult, thank you. What I study has nothing to do with religion. Te people on the forum are no organisation. But he is in a cult privately , except that he says that they are too stupid, so he is not their disciple, he needs no teacher, because God chose him, he only shares their philosophy to a degree.

I am a grown woman too. Thank you!

Thank you, you are most kind! He knows which city I live in, but he can't come down here.

I will post in whatever threads i wish to post in. The "data" you are getting there is unlikely to be so unique that you can't find it anywhere else. As others have surmised, that makes it sound like a cult. Otherwise, you should be able to find that "data" some place else.

No, it is nothing like a cult. It is unique because thousands of people have voluntarily participated in the research on the forum, letting everyone else examine their personal problems in whichever way they prefer, and no other forum provides thousands of samples and records of conducted research you can discuss with experts. My research has to do with psychology, combinatorics and statistics of certain categories of people and events.

Grandpa alone is in a cult, but he is independent from them and he applies his understanding of the way that book works to his personal affairs and apparently, me. But the book wasn't composed by a member of his cult, it has nothing to do with it. The book is metaphorical and it is not used by any cults. "Sacrificing virgins" stands for "being a helpless victim of the dominant".

He is now stalking me on my youtube channel and "responding" to the comments I leave on videos through his posts on the forum, alluding to what I've said in those comments. I keep my activity hidden, but he googles me.

So, I didn't work on this for a while, but now I got curious again. I forgot to add that the old man openly hates psychology and bashes psychologists and that he relies solely on the circumstances in which events take place to find explanations for the subjects' reactions. I rely on psychology to conduct my research properly. The woman says she majored in psychology, guess how she feels about it now that she's met him?
I didn't go back there. This calls for a higher authority on the problem, as he shows all aspects of malignant narcissism. He is a true textbook sample. One of those authorities recommends ending all contact. However, even not contacting the person in any way is perceived as communication in this case, plus it's online, there can't be too much harm in failing to deal with him either. I shall contact an authority and then probably conduct an experiment in the future and then come here again to share what happens. It should be fun to come up with a technique in dealing with a narc online.

Hello again.

I know that it's been a while, but, I have found out about other things. Apparently, grandpa and the woman are an actual couple. Now they are pushing an agenda that I am an incarnation of the Antichrist or his mother or something. People will believe them because they have a psychic friend. They're looking to bash me in every circle on the planet I might join. I am being severely bullied but I can't tell the admin because he already knows and he never does anything. I'm not the only one. She and grandpa use profanity and discuss politics too and he never modifies their posts. What do I do? Whom do I talk to about online bullying? Somebody tell me please. There are no other websites to learn from professionals and meet other people who are interested and discuss the subject with people and my country is small and there are none here either. I just want to learn