@shiba95,
Everyone annoys a friend once in a while, it's quite human as we all have differences, but she seems to have a "tin ear" about people's feelings.
I would have to set her straight about how I took her behavior, but that's me. If you don't want to tell her how you feel, I see it as difficult to keep dealing with her in any kind of best-friends way, and would then pay attention to other people I liked, increasing distance.
As an oldie, I can say that some friends stay close friends, but most tend to move along with life's changes over time.