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Master of your Domain - Turn on for Women?

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nimh
 
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Reply Wed 21 Jul, 2004 06:24 am
Hey, Pam, dont worry about the "freak" thing - dont we all get pretty freaky when we be making love?

And nah, I dont think its too abnormal .. i dont consider the one or two gals i was with who wanted that at some point freaks ... well, no more than the others, anyway! :-P ... apparently, some women go for it and some dont. Same the other way round, I'm sure ...
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smog
 
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Reply Wed 21 Jul, 2004 10:16 am
PamO. wrote:
I'm sure I'm nothing like Smog's freakish friend too. I'm normal, right?

Of course you're normal! I should have mentioned that she was a "sexual freak," not a "freak freak." Nothing wrong with being a sexual freak. Or a freak freak, for that matter, but that's a different issue.
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paulaj
 
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Reply Wed 21 Jul, 2004 03:04 pm
Yes! I think it's a turn on to watch a guy do his thing.

Heck, I just might make it a requirement. Oh, wait, I have.
It's also a nice little test to see if your mate is open/willing to do a little something to please you.

There is a side benefit to this. A girl get's to see just how her guy might like to be, errr, umm, handled.
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PamO
 
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Reply Wed 21 Jul, 2004 03:30 pm
I was completely confident that there's gotta be another girl out there like me. I thought that was pretty tame, actually. Oh, and another thing...it can't be just ANY guy. For me, it's gotta be my husband---who I think is the sexiest guy ever. I would not want to see anyone else naked touching around down there except for him. hee hee. I can't believe I'm writing this stuff.
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marycat
 
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Reply Wed 21 Jul, 2004 09:30 pm
Chiming in with the ladies who like to watch, every now and then.

And also to add to the voices saying that the woman in the original question doesn't want to be a positive force in your marriage. But this idea could definitely be a way to bring some excitement back into your bedroom. But only if your wife is into it. Of course.
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superjuly
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2004 12:44 pm
Nothing unusual about that. At least in my opinion.
I've made that request a few times and it was definatelly a turn on.



PamO. wrote:
I was completely confident that there's gotta be another girl out there like me. I thought that was pretty tame, actually. Oh, and another thing...it can't be just ANY guy. For me, it's gotta be my husband---who I think is the sexiest guy ever. I would not want to see anyone else naked touching around down there except for him. hee hee. I can't believe I'm writing this stuff.



You are funny! ......and normal. LOL
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drom et reve
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2004 08:28 pm
I had never heard of such a 'turn-on' until I read these pages. 'One learns something new every day' is so true.

Anyway, I find it rather gruesome, but I'm under the 'I don't care for sex category' in the first place. So, each to their own; and if you and your husband like it, Pam, why not?
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jul, 2004 06:59 am
How do you not care for sex?
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onyxelle
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jul, 2004 07:33 am
as to the original question...

yep - big turn on - I love to watch (but amazingly...80% of the time they never get to finish their solo activities)
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drom et reve
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jul, 2004 07:53 am
I find no attraction and hardly any satisfaction to it, Slappy; I find that society is too much focused on sex, a generic pleasure, and too less focused on mental and emotional satisfaction, which is different with every single relationship. Too many people hold something animal as the be all and end all, the aim.

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drom et reve
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jul, 2004 07:58 am
onyxelle wrote:
[...]amazingly...80% of the time they never get to finish their solo activities)


Why do you think that they don't finish?
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onyxelle
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jul, 2004 08:00 am
it's my fault they don't finish ;-)
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NickFun
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jul, 2004 08:12 am
I have been asked to perform self-massage a few times and I have seen the ladies do it too. Of course, I think my lady friend would freak out if my genitals looked like Robert Redford such as Garagamels...
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marycat
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jul, 2004 05:59 pm
onyx, LOL! From self-reliance to teamwork...
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Synonymph
 
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Reply Tue 27 Jul, 2004 08:40 am
Watching is one aspect of the marital festivities. It's hot.
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eoe
 
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Reply Tue 27 Jul, 2004 10:09 am
I can see how watching your mate masterbate can open up and break through alot of the little 'secrets' couples keep from one another.
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justoneofthegals
 
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Reply Wed 28 Jul, 2004 04:58 pm
dròm_et_rêve wrote:
I find no attraction and hardly any satisfaction to it, Slappy; I find that society is too much focused on sex, a generic pleasure, and too less focused on mental and emotional satisfaction, which is different with every single relationship. Too many people hold something animal as the be all and end all, the aim.



hey, sometimes its nice to have the animal in u... its nice to just let go and have sex once in a while, rather than focus so much on the emotional aspect, unless one has issues with the sexual partner!
and yes, i agree that watching a guy masturbate is big a turn on...
Twisted Evil there is just something sexy about a person pleasing oneself
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