jespah, I have seriously considered separation, (and divorce), now and in the past. But that's a massive step, one I don't want to take just yet.
Quote:...what did you say to her when she escaped to the crafts room?
I got mad, and told her almost what I posted here. That I felt she gave our marriage the lowest priority.
Now that I think about it, I think I'm wrong about that. With my wife, the most critical problems seem to get the least amount of attention, not out of lack of caring, but out of fear of failure, or fear that she'll find out that we're better off apart.
She said she'll read the Five Languages of Love, but again she claims "lack of time" to read it, yet she gives time to (by comparison) trivial pursuits. But she insists she'll read it now.
I think she's starting to realize that she has to do SOMETHING if she wants to stay in the relationship.
I haven't even been able to wear my wedding ring for the last few months. I just couldn't put it on. I read, (I think it was in Five Languages), that that's a sign of the last stages of a marriage.