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My husband uses escort services

 
 
Reply Fri 4 Sep, 2015 12:47 pm
just found out that my husband of 20 years has been using escorts while he travels to Bangkok which is once a year , for the last five years. He is the most perfect husband father son in law human being otherwise. The people in the society in the family friends and office sets him as an example of a perfect gentleman. That's him. Now I am a completely dependent of him emotionally n financially housewife whose crazy in love with him. He reciprocates the same too😔. What should I do? How should I react? Should I fight the gut out leave him right away and go for a divorce OR should I confront him tell him that I know everything and if he is extremely apologetic then give him another chance. Please help ASAP!!!
 
Ragman
 
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Reply Fri 4 Sep, 2015 12:59 pm
@Mnoplivelive,
Not to avoid asking what might seem to be the obvious but do you know that he has had sex with these escorts? If he has had sex, how does he know whether or not he might have an STD, or other disease? do you know you haven't caught any disease? Have you been tested? Has he?

How can you still feel about him still being a good man while putting you and his family at risk? Other outsiders opinions are irrelevant. Only you and he know the real story. Only yours and his opinions are what matters.

The best advice anyone can give ..or the best input/advice would be...to ask him directly. In fact, ask him in the exact same way you asked here.

After all, it's only the two of you that can really answer and be the most helpful to working all of this out.

If he's as good a man and hubby as you say he is, he'll do the right thing and mend his ways. Actions speak louder than words.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Fri 4 Sep, 2015 01:27 pm
I just wonder HOW you found out all this information.

Of course you should talk to him about this! Your health is in jeopardy if he's messing around.

Go to counseling ASAP. Ask the counselor to help you confront him. Learn how to decide what you are going to do. Marriages do get thru this.
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