Apparently I've been dumped by affair partner or did The wife find outs

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I left my ex when I was 44. Scary ****, 44. Yes?

I'm getting married in November this year after 6 years with my fiancé I'm 52.

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Great attitude Found. My last ex and I split at age 64. My current partner and I are SO over the marriage thing so no plans to head for the alter again :-)

Yay for you!!! 😄😄👍

Well I get that.

Age is but a number.

People have choices of their preferences.

For us, we realise that we made errors in our lives, learnt by them have found a great match and therefore, it would be fitting to share that in a real marriage instead of one that we "thought" was real, at, that time.

Its always a risky option to date with the married person.may be he was really telling you truth or not you can't find it.better to choose another one.

Yes right on. Today is a new day and a day I choose not to think anymore about him. Why give him that power? He's not worth my time. I'm a beautiful woman inside and out and know my worth and I'm going to own that. Had a very adult like conversation about divorce with H last night. That was a step in the right direction. 👍😀

Update for all. I did tell my counselor about this today. He did say this will take some time to work through because it cuts deep. He also reminded me that to remind myself this is about him and his values not you. Not to Turn it inward to myself. That's helpful. 😊👍

We should talk. Such similar situations