Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:03 pm
If 2 people have been dating but not in a committed relationship for about 4 months and one person decides to go on a date with a guy and not tell the other person that they went on a date, is this considered cheating?
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:09 pm
@pupplyloving,
I wouldn't consider it cheating, but I would wonder why there is a need to date someone else.
pupplyloving
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:15 pm
@CalamityJane,
thank you for the reply! It was a complicated situation but with all of the fights and disagreements we were having I thought it would be a good idea to reevaluate what I thought I had with this person and go on a date with someone new.
CalamityJane
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:19 pm
@pupplyloving,
Have you come to an conclusion after the date?
pupplyloving
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:26 pm
@CalamityJane,
I realized that my feelings were strong for the person I had been dating for 4 months shortly after the date. He found out that I had gone on a date and accused me of being a cheater but I completely disagree with him and now he doesn't want to date me anymore.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:27 pm
@pupplyloving,
If it isn't a committed relationship, why not tell the other person that you're dating other people at the same time?
CalamityJane
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:30 pm
@pupplyloving,
Well, he probably had a different perception of your relationship and that's the risk you take when you date more than one person. It's his prerogative to not accept it and move on.
pupplyloving
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:34 pm
@ehBeth,
I was fearful of losing him but at the same time I needed to know whether what him and I had was strong and I thought that by going on a date with someone new it would help me figure out how much I actually liked him and if all of the arguments were with sticking around.
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pupplyloving
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:35 pm
@CalamityJane,
Yes, that is exactly what I tried explaining to him but he doesn't seem to understand or want to listen to my opinion at all
ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:35 pm
@pupplyloving,
pupplyloving wrote:
He found out that I had gone on a date


being honest about the date in advance might have prevented the upset caused by this ^^^

the next time you start dating someone, make sure you're both in the same place about whether you're both cool with dating other people
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:37 pm
@pupplyloving,
It's his right not to agree.

You've learned a lesson about communicating in relationships.
pupplyloving
 
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Reply Tue 11 Aug, 2015 09:47 pm
@ehBeth,
back to the question though, would you consider any of that cheating?
CalamityJane
 
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Reply Wed 12 Aug, 2015 10:45 pm
@pupplyloving,
No, but you betrayed him.
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