@lilackolor,
Quote:is it OK to ask this guy to marry me without even being a girlfriend yet?
I would hope you know the answer to this question without even asking it. I'm not saying that to be in any way harsh. Why would you even want to ask him to marry you? Perhaps this might be an issue of cultural differences or maybe even a language difficulty?
However, you have asked this question...so I have to assume you don't have a lot of experience with dating.
The answer is emphatically, NO! it's not OK. If you haven't started dating each other, you've no basis for determining whether or not he'd be compatible with you.