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Thu 16 Jul, 2015 05:46 pm
I dated a girl who is 35 years old, living with her mother, had ocd, is a hoarder, cheapskate.beyond! So she does not turn the AC or HEAT in her car. Will not roll the windows down, does not drive anywhere with her car other than going to work and STRAight! home. Would never come over with her car! She does not drive faster than 40 mph. Is a tom boy as she says, is a mess (hoarding) but is very hygenic. Has to have things her way, needs her alone time very independent woman who is educated and intelligent. Smart from text books to finances. A clean woman (sexually and mentally). She is sexy but very weird in ways. Her room is such a mess that I never saw it as she would not allow me to see it. Her mother and her are like "Sisters" as they describe their close relationship. When i was dating her i would always have to argue about seeing her. She worked a lot so if she was not sleeping on friday or saturday nights, would want to spend the time alone or she would see me if her mother's fiance was not here this weekend. If it was a weekend that her mom's fiance was not there, she would go out friday with her mom to a bar, saturday go dancing to the same bottle. A VERY ROUTine life! She lives in the basement and sleeps down there for the 2 years I have known her. I am sure her life has been the same for the last 14 years since graduating college. Her mother is divorced since her childhood and has a fiance for the last 10 years or so that is a bit of an asshole. Makes fun of her, is rude, sarcastic and cynical. He lives in another state and comes to see his fiance ha every other weekend or so. I just want to know from men and women how this situation looks BUT! FROM men! Depending on how she looks and how you felt about her, if you fell in love with her and thought she was the sexiest thing in the world, from the description above, would you consider proposing to her, wanting children from her and spending the rest of your live with her and no other woman???
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@jettaturbo,
Don't crowdsource such things. If you want to be with her, then find a way. If not, don't. Other people's opinions don't matter, and it just looks like juvenile gossiping.