@Frank Apisa,
At first I was mystified about how I had offended you and couldn't figure out why (Duh, happens more than I like) Then it occurred to me that it was because I thought you were following what I was trying to do. Because of that, I got sucked into using the personal example (you and your loved ones) that you brought up. I usually avoid that.
So, what was I doing:
We don't have any publicly available hard evidence that God exists so if we are to explore the subject, all we have to work with are thought experiments, meditation, contemplation or whatever you want to call it. The one I was using was to put myself in the mind of the real (or hypothetical if you prefer) God and see if it makes sense. So yes, I am playing God much of the time in these discussions. Both atheists and the religious often think that is hypocritical and egotistical (and/or blasphemous). I don't mean literally, I am not one of those New Age Spiritual people who truly believe 'We Are God'. From previous conversations, I erroneously thought you understood where I was coming from. My bad, but in a way I was paying you a complement in doing so.
Next time I will pick a neutral subject rather than you or the people you care about. I should have used an example like 'Yes, it is foolish and lazy for Tim Teebo to kneel and pray that God will guide his football'. A rather forced example but I hope you see what I mean.